Comment by doubled112
4 months ago
Disclaimer: This became more of a rant than I intended. I've become pretty unhappy with the general quality of the "professionals" I've interacted with lately.
I just can't agree with this take. It sounds that simple, but it's not.
I happen to enjoy learning and fixing.
It would take me a long time to build that trust. Nobody cares about my things and my family's safety like I do.
Most people are a long way from making as much money as an expert would charge them.
In the last couple of years, I have had some terrible times when I call for help.
When the dealership is charging $200/hr to have a kid plug in the car and follow a flowchart, I'll just take a look myself.
Plus one time they left my fuel pump loose and I had to pay (in time and money) for an extra round trip with Uber, and the fuel it sprayed onto the road. They didn't fix the original problem, which cost me another round trip.
Another time, I had technicians (experts) out to look at my leaking hot water tank 4 times before they decided it was time to replace it. I wasted the time calling, babysitting, coordinating, figuring out how to shower without hot water, etc.
If this is the average "expert" count me out. I'll do it myself. Plus, throwing money at a problem isn't near as fun.
> When the dealership is charging $200/hr to have a kid plug in the car and follow a flowchart, I'll just take a look myself.
Regrets about not becoming more of investing the time to be an intuitive handy man is a very different category from "let's see if there's a video on yt to help me fix that in 5 minutes". My message is definitely not "don't get your hands dirty" but "be practical". Doing the yt/google/chatgpt thing to get an idea is mostly practical.
> If this is the average "expert" count me out.
You disclaimed, no problem — but I did write "build a network of experts you trust". Just calling someone and being annoyed that they are not good (and I agree, most of them are not) is not that. It's going to take time and money, but decidedly less so, because you get into the habit if doing it, you learn, you see red flags, network effects are real (people know people) and relationships on average last long enough. That is my experience, at least, but I have no reason to believe I would be special here.
> Plus, throwing money at a problem isn't near as fun.
That's true, in my case, only for very few problems. Most problems I would rather not solve myself.
I'll admit: All of this is a concession to reality, at least my perception of it. Learning is fun. I would really love to be good at a great many things. It's just increasingly unreasonable to invest the time necessary, because things get more complicated and change more quickly.
Staying good at a few things, learning whatever is most important next, and getting better at throwing money at the rest, will have to do.
I'm enjoying this thread. I want to add that building a network of experts has other costs too.
Sticking to a network will limit the variety of people you get to meet, everything else the same. Local maxima.
It also isn't practical in some circumstances; if I travel for work or move cities every few years, the local network for mechanics gets lost. The cost of keeping the network would be staying in one place.
So, these are all options.
>> The cost of keeping the network would be staying in one place.
One man's bug is another man's feature:). You describe staying as a bug, I've lived in the same house for 24 years, and, for me, it's definitely a feature. I'd positively hate moving to another suburb, never mind city.
And yes, I've developed relationships with local service providers. My plumber, my electrician, my mechanic, all know me by name. I've found the people I can trust and they eliminate those hassles from my life.
But, and this is my point, I'm not you. My context, my goals my desires, are all different to yours, and that's fine. We're all in different places, being different people, and that's OK. It doesn't have to be "us versus them". We might enjoy different thinks, and have different perspectives, but that's OK.