Comment by jstummbillig
3 months ago
> the understanding you gain from tinkering is priceless
You pay with time. It's priceless, if you are a romantic or lack foresight (because what you did with your total will be way more important than what is left). Otherwise it will always be the most expensive thing you have (and we must still be able to spend it without care, because what would life be otherwise).
> But when it doesn't, I often wish I was that guy that had tinkered with my car
Don't. Instead build a network of experts you trust and make more money doing what you do best to pay them with. Trying to solve the world on your own is increasingly going to fail you. It's too complicated.
Disclaimer: This became more of a rant than I intended. I've become pretty unhappy with the general quality of the "professionals" I've interacted with lately.
I just can't agree with this take. It sounds that simple, but it's not.
I happen to enjoy learning and fixing.
It would take me a long time to build that trust. Nobody cares about my things and my family's safety like I do.
Most people are a long way from making as much money as an expert would charge them.
In the last couple of years, I have had some terrible times when I call for help.
When the dealership is charging $200/hr to have a kid plug in the car and follow a flowchart, I'll just take a look myself.
Plus one time they left my fuel pump loose and I had to pay (in time and money) for an extra round trip with Uber, and the fuel it sprayed onto the road. They didn't fix the original problem, which cost me another round trip.
Another time, I had technicians (experts) out to look at my leaking hot water tank 4 times before they decided it was time to replace it. I wasted the time calling, babysitting, coordinating, figuring out how to shower without hot water, etc.
If this is the average "expert" count me out. I'll do it myself. Plus, throwing money at a problem isn't near as fun.
> When the dealership is charging $200/hr to have a kid plug in the car and follow a flowchart, I'll just take a look myself.
Regrets about not becoming more of investing the time to be an intuitive handy man is a very different category from "let's see if there's a video on yt to help me fix that in 5 minutes". My message is definitely not "don't get your hands dirty" but "be practical". Doing the yt/google/chatgpt thing to get an idea is mostly practical.
> If this is the average "expert" count me out.
You disclaimed, no problem — but I did write "build a network of experts you trust". Just calling someone and being annoyed that they are not good (and I agree, most of them are not) is not that. It's going to take time and money, but decidedly less so, because you get into the habit if doing it, you learn, you see red flags, network effects are real (people know people) and relationships on average last long enough. That is my experience, at least, but I have no reason to believe I would be special here.
> Plus, throwing money at a problem isn't near as fun.
That's true, in my case, only for very few problems. Most problems I would rather not solve myself.
I'll admit: All of this is a concession to reality, at least my perception of it. Learning is fun. I would really love to be good at a great many things. It's just increasingly unreasonable to invest the time necessary, because things get more complicated and change more quickly.
Staying good at a few things, learning whatever is most important next, and getting better at throwing money at the rest, will have to do.
I'm enjoying this thread. I want to add that building a network of experts has other costs too.
Sticking to a network will limit the variety of people you get to meet, everything else the same. Local maxima.
It also isn't practical in some circumstances; if I travel for work or move cities every few years, the local network for mechanics gets lost. The cost of keeping the network would be staying in one place.
So, these are all options.
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